Deception and lies are the worst, and when you catch your husband in an affair, the shock can be devastating. Infidelity is the cause of millions of divorces. But, what these numbers don’t reveal is what a betrayed wife can do to get past the trauma and rebuild her life. Here are some tips you can use to move past your husbands affair right after the “D – Day”.
Take time off. Going away for a while helps you gain clarity, so take a few days off from work, and if possible go away for a weekend.
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Surround yourself with people who love you. Ask for help and support from your parents, friends, and even your siblings. Don’t be afraid of what anyone might think; this situation is not you fault.
Learn to say “no”. You are under extreme stress; think of the rest of your life, your childrens. Prioritize your responsibilities so that you can put some of them on the back burner.
Put yourself first. Save as much as money as you can, so that you can use this account if your marriage heals or not.
Get counseling for yourself. See your own counselor in regards to your problem first. You can also visit an online support for the help that you need.
Go get tested for STDs and HIV.
As scary as it seems, your health is something that is simply too important to hide from.
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