Can you believe that we’re still being told that women can’t have it all?!?! Maybe you’re even telling this to yourself. No worries, Dear SiStar, these sacred and juicy steps are a surefire way to get you moving into that place where you actually can have it all, in exactly the way you like.
Define YOUR “all”. Clear away the influences, voices and advice of others. Your “all” is YOUR “all”! NO ONE else can define this for you, my Love. Not even societal views can truly define your personal “all”. When you have it, record a list of what makes up your “all”. When your list is done, connect with each list item, through your emotional body. Get intimate with your wishes. Feel them so deeply that you know where each one lives in your physical body.
Discover what is really standing in the way of you having your all. This is the “tricky” step. I’m inviting you to discover what your “wounded self” is worried about, when it comes to having your all. No analysing allowed here. Rely on the the wisdom of your wounded self. Dig deep, on this one.
Deliver the gift of your all, to your Divine. Take everything that you’ve gathered in steps 1 & 2, and allow the complete picture to emerge through your first eye of clear vision and intuition. Verbalize this aloud, via your heart center, to your Divine. Be clear. Be honest. Be emotional. Be whatever you are. Then, place this gift into the loving hands of your Divine. Open up to gratitude. Stay in gratitude for step 4.
Decide on three simple babysteps you could take toward having your “all”. Allow your Divine to inspire you here. Add a reasonable duedate for each one, and enlist an accountability partner to keep you on track with completing your list.