A Spell for Breaking Ties with Someone from Your Life


Article by John Scardina     Photo: Lauren Aletta

A Spell for Cutting Ties with Someone from Your Life

A Spell for Cutting Ties with Someone from Your Life

Magick is energy and we all know energy surrounds us. I choose to believe that there is no differences in magic, prayer, manifestation, energy transfer, kind positive thoughts, the ability to will, well wishes and meditation in regards to altering the human body in a positive manner.

So, I ask everyone to create magic, pray your prayer, manifest freely, transfer good energy, create kind thoughts, will positively, offer well wishes, and meditate your hearts out. No matter your beliefs, you can make a positive change with your energy for all of us. Get out there make the change, the World needs you and Magick today and every day!

Being Wiccan I am a Witch and all Wiccan’s are Witches, but let it be known that not all Witches are Wiccan. The main concept of Wicca or the Wiccan rede, “An it harm none, do what ye will.”  Simple eight words, basic meaning, have a ball, do what you want, just don’t harm anything as it can come back to you times three.

Anyway, all of this is for another day, my purpose here is to share some magick and provide safe and reliable spells and rituals for use in business and personal life. One more item in your holistic and spiritual health toolbox. I want to enable the magick that is already in you and set it forth upon the world in a positive way! 

First thing to remember is that spells and rituals are just words until you personalize them with your intent.

I urge everyone that finds a spell through me or any other source, look it over, read it, change it, write it down and let it fit you and you alone. When a spell or ritual becomes part of you, it just becomes that much more powerful. 

Now on to the good stuff:

As entrepreneurs, we all have moments that we wish would end or want to put past us, people and alike. So, banishing is an option (again, with bringing no harm). You can banish nicely, if you will!

This has been adapted for my business use by removing names of particular deities, also I would create a circle, invite guardians for protection, but again this is more advanced and just the spell alone can work. I urge you to try it, and report back the effect! Enjoy


This is a ritual for love gone wrong, for ending a personal, family or business relationship that you no longer wish to be in. It is a fire spell. This is in theory a powerful ritual.

To work it gather:

  • Herbs of protection (bay Leaf) Black Candle (small chime style) scryed (carve/etch) with the person’s name. 
  • An image of the person (photograph, poppet, etc.) -Something written in their own hand, a lock of hair, a piece of clothing or a personal object will also do. 

How to perform the magick spell:

Light the Black scryed candle, and let burn completely during the ritual.

Put the personal items into a fireproof container - iron cauldron, marble mortar, whatever -and set fire to it as you perform the spell. It should make a very satisfactory blaze that reduces to ashes.

The ashes can be buried or washed down a drain. Flush them down a toilet if you are very angry (My favorite).

Dispose of all the objects that connect you to the person: gifts, letters, photographs, etc.

To be spoken or chanted during the burning of items:

"by basilisk and bloodstone
by the garlic in the fields
by the poppies and what they yield
invisibly I make my shield
to detect thee and deflect thee
By dragon's blood and salamanders
by horses when their hooves strike sparks
by the dragon breathing flames from the Book of Life
I erase thy names
I cut the cords and unlock the chains
I sever all the ties by which we were bound
and with impenetrable walls myself I surround
against thy power and its source
against thy evil and its source
With thy strength of my guardians
I banish thee forever from me
and any harm from thee to me
doubles back and tables turned
thou shalt by thyself be burned
With thy strength of my guardians
by the power of three times three I banish thee,
I banish thee, I banish thee I am set free
So mote it be! "
Sit quietly and reflect on the action you just completed and really feel the completeness of the ending of your event!

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